tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-923813049383285532.post6138900166482189020..comments2023-11-03T23:38:03.509+11:00Comments on You Would Be Pretty If...: BlahTullyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17777827076302706767noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-923813049383285532.post-53210570273670583112007-07-04T21:55:00.000+10:002007-07-04T21:55:00.000+10:00Hi TullyI'm so sorry to hear about how you're feel...Hi Tully<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry to hear about how you're feeling at work. I've felt much the same at various times. <BR/><BR/>If you're asking yourself if you should make a change, then it sounds as though it may be an answer for you. What to change though .. that's the question. It takes a while to make a change too.<BR/><BR/>In the meantime, I'm going to give you a bubble. It's a clear bubble that will protect you from the crap that other people dish out. When people say something to you like "book me a restaurant" the bubble will catch what they said, giving you a chance to assess the situation before you react to it.<BR/><BR/>If you don't like the attitude but have to deal with the words, the bubble will let the words pass while keeping the attitude outside. That way you will be able to deal with the request, ie book the restaurant, without getting upset about the tone of voice.<BR/><BR/>Inside the bubble is a safe, warm, comfortable place. I hope you enjoy it.Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01767856377154709008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-923813049383285532.post-55613898319332050302007-07-02T10:13:00.000+10:002007-07-02T10:13:00.000+10:00WBS - I don't think you can blame the weather; sin...WBS - I don't think you can blame the weather; since like me, Tully is a cold weather girl :-)<BR/><BR/>I think that holiday over here will be just what you need to revive yourself. I've only been working for a couple of weeks and I'm already thinking, "Good god there's going to be no end to this." - Unlike school or Uni where there was A Finish Line. In some ways I'm thankful for my gym exploits since it gives me something to do in the weekends (especially dragging Sarah-I out here to join me, rawr!)<BR/><BR/>What especially upsets me though, is the way you're treated at your work. Is there any sort of employee assistance programme that is run by your workplace (or contracted out by your workplace)? Maybe that could help - I'm looking at the pamphlet for our office and there's options for work relationships and so forth (even though it seems as though everyone else have the issues!)<BR/><BR/>And hey, if you ever want to move overseas, you're more than welcome in Auckland :-) [preferably West Auckland!]Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08229478994519987395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-923813049383285532.post-1776687813703917442007-07-02T04:32:00.000+10:002007-07-02T04:32:00.000+10:00Having a blah day here too. Thinking about getting...Having a blah day here too. Thinking about getting dressed and going out for a walk. Haven't decided it I am going to make it though. :) Take care of yourself - and smile.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04222007416830328320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-923813049383285532.post-11665908667798227192007-07-01T21:05:00.000+10:002007-07-01T21:05:00.000+10:00Oh bloody hell girl...Get out and have a fling or ...Oh bloody hell girl...<BR/>Get out and have a fling or something.. haha..*joking*<BR/>Sorry to hear you are so down about things... Life certainly can suck sometimes...<BR/>But yes we are alive and we can get about independantly..<BR/>we can toilet ourselves... and eat by ourselves...<BR/>so of course we should be ontop of the world... uh uh.. WRONG>>><BR/>I know where you are... and I am there too...<BR/>How can we rectify this....<BR/>I think it is the shitty weather...<BR/>I HATE winter....Wanna_B_slimmerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12293337245411806885noreply@blogger.com